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Breaking The Cycle: How To Stop Comparing Your Weight Loss To Others

It’s normal to notice other people’s progress, especially when you’re part of a group like Roczen, where everyone is working towards their own weight loss and health goals. But it can also be easy to fall into the trap of comparing yourself to others, wondering why someone else is losing weight faster or feeling frustrated if your progress looks different.

The truth is that everyone in the Roczen group is starting from a different place and dealing with different circumstances. Some people may have more weight to lose, different health conditions, or a lifestyle that allows for more time to focus on their goals. Others might simply lose weight at a different pace due to their body’s unique response.

This is why comparing yourself to others isn’t helpful. It’s like comparing apples and oranges, in which no two journeys are exactly the same. What works for someone else might not be right for you, and that’s okay.

When comparing yourself to others:

  • You’re not focusing on your own habits
    When you compare yourself to others, it can distract you from what you need to do to reach your own goals. Instead of focusing on your progress, you might start following someone else’s journey.
  • You lose sight of the right actions
    Comparing can confuse you about the actions that are best for your own situation. Your weight loss journey is unique to you, and everyone’s path is different.
  • You might feel stressed
    When you compare yourself to others, you can feel like you’re not doing enough. This extra pressure can lead to feelings of failure and lower self-esteem.
  • You miss the chance to celebrate your own success
    If you're focused on what others are doing, you might overlook your own achievements, no matter how small. This can leave you feeling frustrated and less confident.

Everyone’s journey is different:

Remember, everyone’s weight loss journey is unique. It’s important to celebrate your progress, no matter how big or small. Weight loss is hard, and every step forward counts!

Here are some tips to help you stop comparing yourself to others:

  • Clear out your social media
    Take a moment to go through your social media accounts. Unfollow or mute accounts that make you feel bad about yourself or create unrealistic body expectations. Follow accounts that encourage body positivity and self-love.
  • Surround yourself with support
    Spend time with people who understand your journey and lift you up. Friends and family who are supportive can make a big difference in your mental well-being.
  • Track your progress and set realistic goals
    Use a journal to track your progress. The SMART goals method (Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Relevant, and Time-bound) can help you set clear goals and adjust your plan when needed. This way, you’ll always feel in control of your progress.
  • Focus on the actions, not just the results
    When you focus on actions rather than outcomes, your goals will feel more realistic and achievable. This way, you can stay focused on what you can do consistently over time. It’s the small actions that add up to big results, and each step you take helps you move forward.
  • Be kind to yourself
    Celebrate small wins, even if they’re not about weight loss. Take care of your mental health, and remember that setbacks are normal. Progress isn’t always linear, and you’re doing great!

Don’t let comparisons overshadow your progress

When you stop comparing yourself to others, you’ll be amazed at what you can achieve. You deserve to feel proud of your journey and your progress.

If you’re finding it difficult to stay motivated or are feeling discouraged, consider reaching out to the Roczen team for extra support. You don’t have to go through this alone!

Stay focused on your own path - you’ve got this.

May 6, 2025
Written by
Reviewed by
Robbie Green RD

The information on this page is for educational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always consult a qualified healthcare professional for personalised medical guidance.

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